Friday, April 28, 2006

Male Toys and Equipment - By Iris Emery

These sleeves come in a variety of shapes and sizes and textures, so you’re probably going to have to try a few out before you find out that fits the bill. The ones with textures on the inside can be fantastic and can add to you and your partner’s sexual activity as well, creating an easier back and forth motion for a tired wrist.

For a mind-blowing self-masturbation experience, it’s all about the penis pumps. While these are normally touted as ways to enlarge the penis, that isn’t the only thing it's good for. What it does do is create an enormous amount of suction equivalent to the best fellatio that you’ve ever received in your life.

By pumping the air out of the chamber where the penis is placed, there is a vacuum that sends every inch of the skin into a sensitive maelstrom of pleasure. The penis becomes engorged and the final release is so powerful that you may wonder if you ever needed anyone else. (Just kidding)

Penis pumps can be tricky though if you’re not careful. Don’t pump too hard, or you can end up with something like a hickey on your penis.

Moving onward and upward and backward…

It’s not just about making the penis bigger in order to create a highly pleasurable experience, but it’s also about thinking of the blood flow to the penis tip.

When the blood moves through the penis, that’s when it becomes more sensitive. And that’s when it’s easy to release an orgasm as the sensitivity builds. To make your self last a little longer, penis rings are suggested.

These temporarily cut off the blood flow to the penis head so that you don’t feel as much of the thrusting sensations. In addition to keeping you ‘cool,’ it also helps to stimulate your partner with well-placed knobs and textures. This helps you to hold back an orgasm for much longer than you might be able to, and culminates in a release that is more intense than you may have ever believed possible.

These are definite fun things to try. And while you can use them on your own, it’s sometimes more fun to play with someone else. If you’re getting pleasure out of something, who knows what your partner may feel?

You might be pleasantly surprised.

Rest your fears

Most men don’t understand the power of prostate stimulation. Using anal toys to help with your orgasms is just another way to intensify your experience. Butt plugs and anal beads can create an intense pressure on the prostate and thus create perfect conditions for an intense release.

And with a little lubricant, there’s nothing to fear.

This is something that you can test on your own and then share with your partner to see how many areas can be stimulated at the same time. What a rush.

And to make every sexual experience a little tastier, you can use flavored condoms to get your partner hungry for more. Why not encourage all the licking that you can? Latex can be so boring.

Toys aren’t just for women when they’re by themselves, but there are also great toys available for men that want a little alone time or to make their partner time last even longer.

Not that you need any help with that.

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Masturbation - Don't Be Afraid to Masturbate - By Sacha Tarkovsky

Many psychologists and researchers have discovered that masturbation can be, and is, a positive addition to one’s personal and sexual life.

However there are many taboo’s related to masturbation and many feel it is something to be embarrassed about it. Let’s however look at the facts.

As a common subject, masturbation needs no particular explanation, but most dictionaries describe it as manual stimulation of the genital organs (of yourself or another) for sexual pleasure. In many countries and cultures, masturbation has been either prohibited or highly discouraged, as in Islam. In some countries it was even a capital offense!

Masturbation is common

It must be noted that along with sexual intercourse masturbation is the most common sexual practice. Most people are able to achieve orgasm solely by masturbation and without sexual intercourse.

It has also been well documented that masturbation is common in many mammalian species, both in the wild and in captivity.

Masturbation is safe

Where safe sex is an issue, or that of pre-marital sex (without penetration), and other means of abstinence, masturbation provides a sure method of eliminating all risk. The French have known this for centuries, and it is part of their sexual context. Also, mutual masturbation is gaining popularity among the young school-age children…in response to education about AID and pregnancy prevention.

Masturbation Techniques

There are both female and male techniques to masturbation, and both are very specific. For men, it is very interesting to note that an Australian research published a medical study which concluded that frequent masturbation by males may help prevent the development of prostate cancer.

As a negative, and worth noting, very frequent masturbation can lead to reduced interest in further sexual activity, tiredness and other unwanted side-effects. However, these negative qualities to masturbation tend to make frequent masturbation self-limiting for almost all men and women.

There is also compulsive masturbation, and this is considered as a sexual anomaly, and medical help is often required to stop it.

Masturbation history

Taken historically, masturbation has a colorful past. The Egyptians held that the entire universe was created by the God ATUN masturbating and then ejaculating. The ancient Greeks held it a perfectly natural sexual activity.

This is however quite unlike the modern Greeks who hold that masturbating makes you stupid, and the Greek work malakas (from malakia = masturbation) is the word for a stupid person, an insult, and prevalent in the everyday speech of all Greek people.

In ancient China, masturbation was also commonplace, and considered an acceptable activity, except masturbating to ejaculation. This was discouraged, as they believed it sapped your vitality.

This thought was mirrored in 18th and 19th century Europe (and America), and lasted well into the 20th century. In fact, in the 19th and early 20th century, this thought of masturbation was considered an illness or perverted activity, and not only discouraged, but forbidden.

Today, most outmoded beliefs (except in some Islamic countries, where masturbation is considered as Haraam = forbidden) and only in some circumstances.

One well-known and respected Islamic scholar has written that “Masturbation may be permissible so that men and women have a healthy knowledge of their own bodies, and so that they may be able to communicate with their marital partner about their sexual needs.’ So even in very strict and rigid cultures, masturbation can be acceptable.

Masturbation your not alone

Statistics also show that an overwhelming amount of both men and women masturbate or have masturbated in their lives. Be it the subject of humor, or literature, or religion, masturbation appears to be a common human activity and condition.

It must be mentioned that the Catholic church still holds masturbation to be a sin, and there is much controversy over this and other dogmatic principles of the Catholic church.

Do not be afraid then to masturbate, should you be in a situation or condition where it is preferable to abstention. Masturbation can relieve depression and anxiety, and even give some people a more self-confident image of themselves.

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