Thursday, February 23, 2006

Flirting With Women - By Matt Garrett

Flirting with women, is probably one of the most favorite and loved topic for men. It is not uncommon for you, when a friend asks for your advice on how to flirt with a woman. Flirting is one aspect of life from which both men and women cannot escape. However the appetite and hunger for flirting is more in men than women.

A man can have several girlfriends but would still feel the need of flirting. This is not bad, indeed it is completely natural. As a man you can flirt with any number of women provided you don’t hurt them or betray your existing partner.

Though there are not any hard and fast rules for the flirting game. The specialists in human behavior have certainly laid down some points. Flirting with women is not at all that tall order. Infact it is simple. All it requires is a certain attitude and communication skills
from your side and the woman is yours.

You Are The Man!

The first basic of flirting with women is having self confidence. You should be confident and assertive for yourself, no matter what you do, no matter what you wear and no matter what you say. You should have that attitude which should be manly, but not boasting.

Having that confidence in you increases positive energy in you. Girls get attracted to this positive vibes coming out of you. Always remain confident and optimistic while talking to a girl. Never disclose your weak points rather disclose your strengths. Your confidence would create an illusion in the mind of the woman-- that this guy is great. He knows everything and does everything right. Make them feel that you are the best person on this world.

The Seductive Look and Smile

Now this is the most effective flirting tool. While you are making an eye contact with a woman, remember to smile. Smiling does not mean showing your whole bunch of teeth, instead a bit of smirk. Your smile shows that you are interested in the woman and compliment her reciprocation of eye contact. Don’t keep staring at her, look away from her and then again let her make an eye contact with you. If she does, then it’s an invitation from her side. If she smiles back, it is time you start a conversation with her.

Tease Her

This is very effective way of grabbing the attention of your woman. Try and tease her with your attention. After you have maintained an eye contact with a girl, stop looking at her, instead walk away and start looking else where, probably towards other people. When you won’t look at her for long, she will get crazy. She would do things to grab your attention if you have made a decent impression on her. She would keep thinking when you would come back. After a while go back and give her a smile, it would make her the happiest woman on the earth.

Just Do It Attitude

While you are out on date with your girl, don’t ask if you can kiss her. Infact create the mood and just kiss her. You should not ask for permission to kiss her. This makes her think that you are a sissy person and she can control you. On the contrary if you just kiss her, she would think of you as a real man who can control things. So just do it, never ask, but yes create the mood.

About the Author: Matt Garrett, http://www.1Kiss.Orghttp://www.LoveTips.Org