Thursday, March 16, 2006

Female Erogenous Zones – 8 Erogenous Zones That Can Drive Your Partner Wild! - By Sacha Tarkovsky

What are the erogenous zones that drive women wild with passion?

Most obvious ones of course are her breasts and her clitoris, however there are many more.

Below you will find the other top 8 female erogenous zones (some obvious and some not so obvious!) that with careful attention from you, can drive your partner wild with desire.
Go slowly

Keep in mind that women tend to like a lot of foreplay before full sex and concentrating on the erogenous zones below, will help warm your partner up, increase her desire and lead to more a satisfying sexual relationship.

Here are the 8 top female erogenous zones with some tips on how to approach for maximum impact:

Top 8 female erogenous zones

Outside of the two most common ones here are the other 8 zones to target.

1. Ears

There are a huge amount of nerve endings in and around the ears, making them extremely sensitive to being kissed, licked and nibbled.

Explore this area gently kissing, licking and nibbling both around the outside of the ear and also forget to do the occassional lick inside.

2. The Lips

For many women this is their number one erogenous zone! Many women complain that they don’t get kissed enough! Women simply love to kiss so put it right.

Variety and passion is the key to a good kissing experience. Let her know you want, love and desire her; there is simply no better way to do this than a passionate kiss.

Try varying the intensity of the kiss, kiss softly, more passionately, and then slow down, make sure you keep her surprised and tease her with your mouth and tongue.

3. Neck

The neck is one of the best erogenous zones for most women and if you have been kissing her lips try moving down to her neck next.

Most women simply love having their neck kissed, licked and sucked and this makes most women feel incredibly aroused.

Explore the different areas of her neck, you will find the area close to the ears is particularly sensitive, so pay particular attention to this hot spot.

With this erogenous zone (in fact with all really!) variety and passion are the key, vary the intensity of your kissing, nibbling and licking and you will hear from her reaction how much she enjoys it.

A word of caution! Be careful not to get too carried away, most women will not appreciate a bruised neck.

4. The Back

The back is one of the most under rated female erogenous zones and the small of the back in particular, is rich in nerve endings and incredibly sensitive.

Start by massaging the back for a great way to set the mood for a night of passion.
Not only does massaging the back realize tension and help de-stress, it also increases the blood flow to pelvic region and increases its sensitivity.

While massaging her back don’t forget to kiss and lick it, you will find that most women love this and particularly love having their spine kissed and licked running your tongue up and down this area is very erotic.

5. Legs

The inner thighs and the backs of the knees have a huge amount of nerve endings and are extremely sensitive. Lightly kissing and licking in this area can be highly erotic be careful (particularly behind the knees) not to be to rough these areas are very sensitive!

6. Buttocks

Most women are self conscious about their bottoms and deep down want them appreciated. Squeezing and fondling this area and kissing and licking it will be appreciated by most women, who simply love knowing their butt is liked and appreciated.

7. Feet

They're a lot more sensitive than most people think. In Fact, a large area in the brain receives sensations and signals from them, so paying attention to them can be highly stimulating for most women.

Lightly kissing or passionately sucking them as well as massaging them with your hands are guaranteed to arouse your partner. Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be exciting and pleasant for many women.

8. Hands and arms

Not An erogenous zone that most men think of, but fact is most women love having their wrists kissed and nibbled by their men. Many women also like having their hands kissed (a traditional sign of affection) and their fingers sucked. Other areas to target include the joint areas of the arm.

Finally … So there you have it 8 other female erogenous zones to target which your partner will appreciate. When targeting these areas remember to do so with eagerness, passion and variety.

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Menopause & Sex - What Every Woman Must Know! - By Colette Bouchez

As we enter mid-life, changes abound . But for women, it's not only hot flashes and mood swings that can dominate. Indeed many gals discover that the most disconcerting change of all can be the change in they experience in their sex drive.

In short - it can all but disappear.

For some, replenishing those dwindling hormones -with Mother Nature or Father Pharmaceutical - can be a big help.

But what if hormones aren't on your agenda? Not to worry - there are still things you can do!

Indeed, oftentimes small changes in areas of your life you might not even connect with sex - like nutrition, exercise, or even sleep - can make a huge difference in your ability to not only enjoy sex, but actually look forward to intimate encounters.

Here are five things from my book " Your Perfectly Pampered Menopause" that you can try right now to get your libido off and running!

# 1: Take a Nap

Although this probably doesn't sound either sexy or romantic, experts say that fatigue is the number one killer of great romance, not to mention terrific sex. Because night sweats and hot flashes may be keeping you awake at night, don't be ashamed to steal away for a cozy nap any time you get the chance. If you arrange for a rendezvous' with your partner upon waking, you may be surprised to discover how attuned you have become to what may have been "hidden" sexual desires.

# 2 : Eat Your Fruits and Vegetables

In addition to whatever " aphrodisiac" foods you may have heard of, at mid-life doctors say one of the best sex boosters is a healthy diet. Studies show that when the basic requirements for good nutrition are met, hormones function better. And that means you are less likely to feel the "bumps" in your perimenopause road as easily or as often. Also try eating six small meals a day rather than three large ones. This can help keep blood sugar stable which not only increases your energy level, but also can improve your mood and your desires.

# 3 : Quit smoking

You know it's bad for your heart and lungs - but did you know smoking can also put a damper on your sex life? In studies conducted on perimenopausal and menopausal women, doctors found that smoking as little as one pack a day had a greater ability to decrease sexual function than the hormonal changes of menopause! Smoking is also linked to a decrease in estrogen, which can impact sexual response and vaginal sensitivity. The good news: Just months after you stub that last butt, you'll see an appreciable change in your health - including a upswing in your desire for sex!

# 4: Take Time To Relax

Whether it's curling up with a great book, planting petunias in your garden, or taking a pottery class, take time to relax and watch the benefits flow in the bedroom! Indeed, studies show that stress can be the number one thief of sexual satisfaction, and, some experts say it can put a real damper on desire. The link involves an entire cascade of hormonal activity that is set in motion by your response to stress. Once it starts, it can impact a variety of physiological functions, not the least of which is mood - and desire. And, even if you have the desire to make love, being under stress can inhibit both your ability to become aroused and to reach orgasm. So, take a few deep breaths and learn to relax - and you might be surprised at how much better you feel about making love.

Menopause Sex Helper # 5: Buy New Shoes . . .

…or get a new hairdo, change your color, go for a make-over, get a facial, even lose a few pounds. Anything you can do to feel better about yourself IS going to make you feel better about relating to your partner, not just in the bedroom, but in ALL the rooms of your life! Certainly there are important physiological reasons why sex may not be on the top of your list during this time of your life. Sometimes, however, how we feel about ourselves, and even how we view the idea of aging itself, can greatly influence how we feel about having sex and even influence what we think about our own sexuality. Doing whatever you can to enhance your self image - in your own eyes- often translates into feeling better about your partner, your relationship, and ultimately your sexuality and your sensuality.

About the Author: Colette Bouchez is the author of "Your Perfectly Pampered Menopause: Health, Beauty and Lifestyle Advice for the Best Years of Your Life" and director of" . Visit today and get a free mid life health and beauty newsletter!